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· 11 min read

Issue No. 21: ChatGPT doesn’t understand you. You might not care.

I used AI to process a friendship spiral after exhausting my entire phone book—and accidentally learned why feeling heard can matter more than getting good advice. Plus: a Russian River trip held together by bungees and denial, two survival-approved outfits, an extremely necessary bathroom-counter i

Issue No. 21: ChatGPT doesn’t understand you. You might not care.
· 10 min read

Issue No. 20: Hypothetically, if someone at work told you to shut the f*ck up...

A wildly inappropriate workplace story made me wonder why the person being disrespected is still expected to respond perfectly. Plus: the Bay Area barbecue I’d choose over Texas, two outfits for very different plans, products earning permanent real estate, and a tiny tribute to one of my formative p

Issue No. 20: Hypothetically, if someone at work told you to shut the f*ck up...
· 10 min read

Issue No. 19: It’s not about the house. It’s about who keeps coming back.

I disappeared into Texas, resurfaced with several friendship texts to send, and realized that being a low-maintenance friend still requires some maintenance. Plus: the launch of Ask the Archive, a Napa day worth copying, the swimsuit that refuses to retire, Paak’s all-black birthday look, and the cr

Issue No. 19: It’s not about the house. It’s about who keeps coming back.
· 11 min read

Issue No. 18: Good work doesn’t speak for itself.

I disappeared into AI Week, neglected my creative baby, and accidentally proved that excellent work is only part of what helps a career grow. Plus: the Texas outfit keeping me comfortable, Paak’s surprisingly successful double-date recommendation, two restaurants on my LA and NYC lists, and an inter

Issue No. 18: Good work doesn’t speak for itself.
· 13 min read

Issue No. 17: What if telling the truth is the selfish choice?

A random relationship debate sent me into a full moral spiral: Can honesty still be selfish if it mostly transfers your guilt to someone else? Plus: three summer looks, Bombera review, restaurant saves across SF, LA, and NYC, the psychology behind our worst predictions, and why the entire country ap

Issue No. 17: What if telling the truth is the selfish choice?
· 14 min read

Issue No. 16: Curiosity, collagen, Chinatown dinners, and why AI might be changing the skill that matters most

This week we're talking about curiosity, collagen, Chinatown dinners, styling tricks that make every outfit better, and the internet's newest obsession with becoming an AI expert overnight.

Issue No. 16: Curiosity, collagen, Chinatown dinners, and why AI might be changing the skill that matters most
· 12 min read

Issue No. 15: The Invisible Reps

Invisible reps, beautiful dinners, a restaurant with incredible views and terrible service, why saying someone's name actually matters, and the random things currently occupying my brain—from British thrillers to baby coyotes in my backyard.

Issue No. 15: The Invisible Reps
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Issue No. 14: Money, momentum & making fewer expensive mistakes

This week we’re talking about the money mistakes that completely changed how I think about success, the psychology concept that’s helping me stop procrastinating, work lessons no one teaches you, restaurants worth adding to your list, summer outfits on repeat, and the tuna dip everyone has been aski

Issue No. 14: Money, momentum & making fewer expensive mistakes